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    Post  stephanie79 on Sat Apr 13, 2013 4:19 pm

    My uncle killed himself in 2009 after about 20/30 years of depression...We weren't close whatsoever but I feel pretty shoddy that when he came over I'd stay upstairs due to my low confidence levels!

    What do you think I can do to sort this? I'm a little scared about 'seeing' him but I am wondering what he feels now? xoxo

    I'm unsure about this as well so if this isn't really what happens - i.e their carry over their thoughts then please let me know :)

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    Post  SpiritVoices on Sat Apr 13, 2013 5:18 pm

    I am sure your uncle understands now. We see and understand events more clearly I should imagine in spirit than in physical life.

    :hugz:

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    Post  stephanie79 on Sat Apr 13, 2013 5:23 pm

    Oh I hope so! He was a nice man just I never knew him properly and felt awkward around him which is bad of me but there we are. We have a yellow rose in the garden for him and I look at it often xxxxx thank you :)
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    Post  SpiritVoices on Sat Apr 13, 2013 6:24 pm

    I had an uncle like that,always strange to me. Always a bit in awe of him....he was a school teacher and rather strict.

    Then one day,he mentioned spiritualism and asked me if I knew anything about it.
    he taught me a lot and thats when my interest sprang up.

    I think with most people you have to find a mutual interest.
    That set the friendship off.
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    Post  Violet on Sat Apr 13, 2013 10:03 pm

    I agree with Joanie he would understand if not then, then certainly now, please don't beat yourself up about this :hugz:



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    Post  stephanie79 on Sat Apr 13, 2013 10:08 pm

    That's good Joanne! When he die I started a blog and did what I truly wanted to do. I had a few years thinking about commuting suicide myself but when he did it I knew he was 'happy' now and I saw the effect on my family and it made me love them more xxxxxxx
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    Post  stephanie79 on Sat Apr 13, 2013 10:10 pm

    And thank you violet xxxx :)
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    Post  SpiritVoices on Sat Apr 13, 2013 10:17 pm

    You're welcome,Stephanie.

    We all come across those in our lives. Some we feel good with and some friendships just don't work out.
    Mostly reasons are as the above,some we just don't meld with. Others start off good and but end for a reason. The true friendships are those that stay for ever.
    They're meant to be that way. Nothing will end a good friendship.

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    Post  SpiritVoices on Sat Apr 13, 2013 10:20 pm

    Well,I've had a great evening out with a very good friend.... :asmile:
    Dinner and a bottle of wine so off I trot up the 'wooden hill' as my gran used to say.....

    Night all,sleep tight all.

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    Joanie xx
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    Post  stephanie79 on Sat Apr 13, 2013 10:33 pm

    I completely agree I had a crap diet, drank, smoked, didn't move now I eat well (try too still struggle) walk, yoga meditate (need to get into it more) and I am actually feeling ather grateful and blessed every day has good points.

    I am very thankful for everyone here, very sweet!!!

    Glad you had. A good evening :) I do think sme of my school friends will drop off at some point but we shall see xxx
    Sleep well! No doubt ill be back on here tomorrow with more questions lol!

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