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    Post  Violet on Tue Mar 22, 2011 12:38 am

    How long do you recommend someone waits for a mediumship reading following a death?
    Does it matter if it's the day after or a year after?

    Do you think it takes a long time before spirits can come through?



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    Post  SpiritVoices on Tue Mar 22, 2011 7:26 am

    That's a hard one,Violet.
    Some have waited years,some have received messages straight away.
    It also depends on the strength of the person who has passed, in the art of communication.
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    Post  Blackcrow on Tue Mar 22, 2011 10:24 am

    Hi violet like joan has said it depends on the strength of the person deceased, i can only speak from experience i have given messages to two women, who came to the healing sanctury, afer the undertaker took the coffin to the house over night, he was placed in front of a unit he hated in life, he came through asking why they placed him there knowing he hated the unit, their faces were a picture,
    but i have given messages to others, years later after the loved one passed, that was the first message they had had,
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    Post  SpiritVoices on Tue Mar 22, 2011 10:53 am

    I have heard before,Carron.
    Also the difference in time between here and spirit can make a dfference.
    remember we move at a difference pace to spirit,their time is a lot faster than our's,I beleive.
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    Post  Violet on Sat Mar 26, 2011 9:53 pm

    experience i have given messages to two women, who came to the healing sanctury, afer the undertaker took the coffin to the house over night, he was placed in front of a unit he hated in life, he came through asking why they placed him there knowing he hated the unit, their faces were a picture,
    but i have given messages to others, years later after the loved one passed, that was the first message they had had,
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    Hi Blackcrow, I bet that gave them quite a shock!
    I had a relative come through a medium in 3 days I thought that was quick, the medium said he had a very strong energy, as far as I know he didn't believe in any of this but it just goes to show that you don't need to to get back through.

    I agree about the time too Joanie.



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    Post  SpiritVoices on Mon May 16, 2011 12:51 pm

    Has anyone ever noticed that the more we yearn for a message,the longer we wait?

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    Post  zerdini on Mon May 16, 2011 10:44 pm

    Joanie wrote:I have heard before,Carron.
    Also the difference in time between here and spirit can make a dfference.
    remember we move at a difference pace to spirit,their time is a lot faster than our's,I beleive.
    There is no time in the Spirit World.
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    Post  Violet on Mon May 16, 2011 10:44 pm

    Hi Joanie, it certainly seems that way, but i'm sure we're getting subtle messages all the time but just not picking up on them or putting them down to imagination.



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    Post  zerdini on Mon May 16, 2011 10:46 pm

    Joanie wrote:Has anyone ever noticed that the more we yearn for a message,the longer we wait?

    I have never yearned for a message so can't answer that question, Joan.
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    Post  SpiritVoices on Tue May 17, 2011 6:41 am

    I was thinking of when we first lose someone,the first days and months.
    We can't believe they have left us,that they no longer exist on this earth.
    That is when we long for some communication from them to say they still exist.
    As time goes by,that need subsides and we find we can live our lives without them once more.

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    Post  zerdini on Tue May 17, 2011 7:54 am

    Joanie wrote:I was thinking of when we first lose someone,the first days and months.
    We can't believe they have left us,that they no longer exist on this earth.
    That is when we long for some communication from them to say they still exist.
    As time goes by,that need subsides and we find we can live our lives without them once more.


    That must be very sad.

    Fortunately I have never had that experience. From the day I first enquired into Spiritualism (over fifty years ago!) I have always been aware of the closeness of friends and loved ones.

    I can truthfully say that I have never lost contact with anyone I've ever known on earth.
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    Post  SpiritVoices on Tue May 17, 2011 9:59 am

    Don't get me wrong,Z.
    I am not saying I want to forget him.
    God forbid,I ever do that.
    But we have to move on with our lives,we cannot sit and mope.
    I know he is very near me,often sitting on my own in the evenings,I feel him very close indeed.
    I feel a gentle pat on the head,and sometimes I know he is sitting beside me on the settee.
    (I have actually been told that)
    Another small instance is,I have a bedside armchair opposite the bed and when I read my book at night,I can almost feel him'breathe' shall I say,as he sits watching over me during the night.
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    Post  Violet on Thu May 19, 2011 12:18 am

    That must be extremely comforting Joanie



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