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    Are you scared of dying?

    Post  Violet on Thu Jul 01, 2010 12:10 am

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    Are you scared of dying, or just how you will die, or do you have no fear at all of any part of death?
    Have your beliefs (whatever they are,) helped you fear it less, more, or not made any difference?



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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  zerdini on Wed Mar 09, 2011 6:16 pm

    You can communicate by thought if you put your mind to it.
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  SpiritVoices on Wed Mar 09, 2011 7:27 pm

    zerdini wrote:You can communicate by thought if you put your mind to it.

    I have by dreams,she is the one who told me where I would be living in the future..

    I am now waiting to see if this comes true.

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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  zerdini on Wed Mar 09, 2011 7:34 pm

    Time is running out........................
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  SpiritVoices on Wed Mar 09, 2011 7:37 pm

    zerdini wrote:Time is running out........................

    Still time to wonder.............. I even know the name of the place.

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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  zerdini on Wed Mar 09, 2011 9:27 pm

    Joanie wrote:
    zerdini wrote:Time is running out........................

    Still time to wonder.............. I even know the name of the place.

    So when are you moving?
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  SpiritVoices on Wed Mar 09, 2011 9:35 pm

    zerdini wrote:
    Joanie wrote:
    zerdini wrote:Time is running out........................

    Still time to wonder.............. I even know the name of the place.

    So when are you moving?
    Haven't a clue,was told this a while ago,all I got in this dream was when my gran asked me when I was moving to my new home?
    I asked where and she gave me a name.
    Can't remember the name of the place but you mentioned it one day,if you remember.
    Where Trev lives! I said to you,that I've been given that name in a dream.
    It's in Cambridgeshire.

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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  PPrncpl7 on Wed Mar 09, 2011 9:53 pm

    Violet wrote:Are you scared of dying, or just how you will die, or do you have no fear at all of any part of death?
    Have your beliefs (whatever they are,) helped you fear it less, more, or not made any difference?
    Hello Violet and all others who posted on here
    Sorry have only just caught up with this post.
    We do not die as such- we continue in spirit form--so I no longer fear death!
    My only fear is that i do not complete my purpose here! WE are all part spirit and part physical while on this earth plane. We are here for a purpose -but have come to accept we do not truly know that purpose. we have choices to make--a path to tread--we eventually shed this physical for--IT IS NOT DEATH-our spiritual form lives on.
    I believe this because it has been proven to me! All my former doubts have been eradicated.
    Physical death is only the 'beginning' of your true life.
    PPLL n L
    Peter

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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  zerdini on Wed Mar 09, 2011 10:55 pm

    Joanie wrote:
    zerdini wrote:
    Joanie wrote:
    zerdini wrote:Time is running out........................

    Still time to wonder.............. I even know the name of the place.

    So when are you moving?
    Haven't a clue,was told this a while ago,all I got in this dream was when my gran asked me when I was moving to my new home?
    I asked where and she gave me a name.
    Can't remember the name of the place but you mentioned it one day,if you remember.
    Where Trev lives! I said to you,that I've been given that name in a dream.
    It's in Cambridgeshire.
    Oh Yes - I remember now.
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  Violet on Sat Apr 02, 2011 12:46 am

    PPrncpl7 wrote:
    Violet wrote:Are you scared of dying, or just how you will die, or do you have no fear at all of any part of death?
    Have your beliefs (whatever they are,) helped you fear it less, more, or not made any difference?
    Hello Violet and all others who posted on here
    Sorry have only just caught up with this post.
    We do not die as such- we continue in spirit form--so I no longer fear death!
    My only fear is that i do not complete my purpose here! WE are all part spirit and part physical while on this earth plane. We are here for a purpose -but have come to accept we do not truly know that purpose. we have choices to make--a path to tread--we eventually shed this physical for--IT IS NOT DEATH-our spiritual form lives on.
    I believe this because it has been proven to me! All my former doubts have been eradicated.
    Physical death is only the 'beginning' of your true life.
    PPLL n L
    Peter

    Hi Peter I agree death is not an end but a beginning.



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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  innerlight on Sat Apr 02, 2011 1:39 am

    nope.... i'm scared i'll live too long.
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    Post  Violet on Sat Apr 02, 2011 2:00 am

    innerlight wrote:nope.... i'm scared i'll live too long.

    I must admit that is a seriously greater worry for me.



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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  gloria on Mon Apr 04, 2011 9:26 pm

    Joanie wrote:I am not afraid of dying,just dying in pain.
    So, am I, I am thinking that maybe I'll be afraid of pain. too.
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  gloria on Mon Apr 04, 2011 9:27 pm

    Violet wrote:
    PPrncpl7 wrote:
    Violet wrote:Are you scared of dying, or just how you will die, or do you have no fear at all of any part of death?
    Have your beliefs (whatever they are,) helped you fear it less, more, or not made any difference?
    Hello Violet and all others who posted on here
    Sorry have only just caught up with this post.
    We do not die as such- we continue in spirit form--so I no longer fear death!
    My only fear is that i do not complete my purpose here! WE are all part spirit and part physical while on this earth plane. We are here for a purpose -but have come to accept we do not truly know that purpose. we have choices to make--a path to tread--we eventually shed this physical for--IT IS NOT DEATH-our spiritual form lives on.
    I believe this because it has been proven to me! All my former doubts have been eradicated.
    Physical death is only the 'beginning' of your true life.
    PPLL n L
    Peter

    Hi Peter I agree death is not an end but a beginning.
    So do I Violet, I am afraid of not completing my mission, on earth. Like leaving your family behind, or not finishing things that ought to be done here on earth.
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  SpiritVoices on Mon Apr 04, 2011 9:32 pm

    That makes me feel afraid as well. Not completing all I should,like tidying up loose ends.
    Making sure that all is well.
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    Post  gloria on Mon Apr 04, 2011 9:32 pm

    Well the only thing I think I would fear is that I won't see any family members, or go somewhere else. But I hope that doesn't happen. Or actually the main fear of death.
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  Violet on Mon Apr 04, 2011 9:57 pm

    Joanie wrote:That makes me feel afraid as well. Not completing all I should,like tidying up loose ends.
    Making sure that all is well.
    Joanie

    Hi Joanie so many die with loose ends and such but I think sometimes this can actually help those left behind, 'i've got to sort this out for mum/dad/gran etc' it can give the breaved a real sense of purpose and make them feel they are doing something important for their loved one, it bridges and closes that 'no man's land' of total despair and grief between the passing and the funeral and helps them to feel they have 'helped' their loved one by doing something practical for them.

    Sometimes though the loose ends such as massive debt can send them further down the spiral of despair.
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  SpiritVoices on Tue Apr 05, 2011 8:12 am

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    My lot would be saying 'Look at the mess mum has left behind,oh dear,oh dear!'
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  Blackcrow on Tue Apr 05, 2011 1:24 pm

    I cant understand why anybody would be afraid of dying, other than the pain they may go through before hand,
    as far as im concerned Life is Hell on earth.i have been through so much in my life that i would welcome it,when im ready.
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  Violet on Tue Apr 05, 2011 9:56 pm

    other than the pain they may go through before hand,
    That's my biggest concern.



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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  Blackcrow on Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:24 am

    Hi violet,
    my mother was in pain for two weeks before she passed her kidneys were failing, but when i asked what else was wrong i was told nothing,i didnt buy that and told them so,three days before she passed she say up in bed, the nurses were saying shes made a remarkable recovery, because all pain left her body, and this is not the first time this has happened ive seen it before,
    we had a autopsy she had complete organ failure not just the kidneys,so i confronted them and told them they were a bunch of idiots it was obvious it was more than kidney failure,when she passed a big smile came across her face she was at peace,
    for myself im not afraid of pain ive had so much pain in my life to be to go home will be a blesssing,
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    Post  Violet on Wed Apr 06, 2011 8:04 pm

    Hi Blackcrow, it's good to hear your mum passed peacefully , I saw someone a few hours before they died and they were the happiest and most at peace than they'd been for weeks so I take on board what you're saying. I wonder if when people get to a certain point the pain lifts in preperation, I've no doubt doctors would put this down to things/chemicals being released in the body.

    I am afraid of pain, I have very low tolerance for it, or perhaps i'm just soft



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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  SpiritVoices on Wed Apr 06, 2011 8:18 pm

    I have noticed that most people pass free of pain at the end.
    When Ken was dying,his blood pressure was dropping very quickly,they had three attempts to bring it back up.
    So the doctor told me.
    The doctor also mentioned that Ken was laughing and joking all the way through.
    I was so surprised.
    I now wonder if he knew the end was near and was out of pain.

    Joanie x
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  Blackcrow on Wed Apr 06, 2011 8:23 pm

    I used to work in an old peoples home and saw many ppl passover, some were in pain but most just went with a smile, on their faces.
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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  Violet on Wed Apr 06, 2011 10:02 pm

    I used to work in an old peoples home

    Me too, no one ever passed away while I was on shift, i'm thankful for that as I wasn't much more than a kid at the time.



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    Re: Are you scared of dying?

    Post  PPrncpl7 on Fri Apr 08, 2011 11:13 pm

    Hello ALL
    I have been witness to two passings!
    One my Father who passed less than peacefully! But he now communicates with me and is a happy soul!
    The other was my wifes aunt--who we had cared for for best part of 30 years!
    She passed peacefully last midsummers day!
    Aged 101!! She has at last come through to me!
    Happy that we sent her to rest in her Sunday best suit and her HAT AND gloves!
    Peter

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