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    Loving your Spirit Guide?

    Post  Violet on Mon Oct 26, 2009 3:22 pm

    I imagine you would feel some kind of love for a spirit guide especially if you have a close bond with them and are communicating regularly with them, at very least you'd have respect for them and trust them.
    Do you think, or do you know of anyone who feels a romantic type of love for their guide, do you think it's even possible? Is it just people getting carried away, or could it be that a guide becomes the only reliable trustworthy and loving being in someone's life, especially if someone is lonely or in a bad relationship and depends on their guide more and more? I shouldn't think it would ever be reciprocated.

    I know there is no physical body to love, but you do hear of things like astral sex, (that's a whole other thread.)

    What are your thoughts on this?


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    Post  Soaring Bird on Tue Nov 03, 2009 2:28 pm

    I love my spirit guides in the same way one would love a close brother. I believe this is recipricated to a degree as from my Book of Shadows ;
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    Slightly missing the warmth of love while watching a movie I felt company gently enter.As well as the normal tingling and goosebumps on my lower arms I felt a very very gentle band of tingling all the way round my back to just under my lower rib. All the way round. It was very gentle and very comforting with a feeling of emotion within. A Spiritual Hug? Tingling on my lower arms, hairs standing on end as soon as I wrote thisquestion. A definite confirmation. Yes. I thanked the spirits for this.

    Regards the physical aspect of spirit world. I knew of one woman who claimed a spirit came and had sex with her sometimes at night. Being honest I thought she was slightly mad! Since that time I know of two others who have said the same thing.
    Of the three womaen, one was non spiritual. This leads me to a point of, is it a physical thing: like when men were boys and they used to have 'wet dreams' or is it an emotional thing, has it been at times of loneliness in ones life, or, is it, and I mean seriously, is it a spiritual thing and somehow in some way spirit form is doing this and if it is, well, that just throws so many questions into the equation.
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    Re: Loving your Spirit Guide?

    Post  innerlight on Tue Nov 03, 2009 2:50 pm

    IMO, if this happens then your guide has crossed the threshold of being a guide, and into dangerous territory. As well as probably being unfit to be one's guide if this level were to be attained.

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    Post  Violet on Tue Nov 03, 2009 2:53 pm

    I agree with you innerlight, I don't think it would happen from the guides side, but from the human side I could see some believing they were having some kind of spiritual love affair with their guide.


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    Post  innerlight on Tue Nov 03, 2009 2:55 pm

    I have heard some people claim this has happened. Where their guides have gotten to attached to the person, or felt to much love for them.

    IMO, they weren't guides to begin with. Which, IMO, is why family members are not guides.

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    Post  Violet on Tue Nov 03, 2009 2:57 pm

    No I don't believe guides are family members either, though a lot do, and i'm not knocking them for that, but imo they'd be far too biased and emotionally involved to be objective.


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    Post  innerlight on Tue Nov 03, 2009 3:01 pm

    Exactly.. It's like a mother coming back to guide their offspring. Do you really think they would push them towards a hard time if it meant learning something important? And just stand there and let them suffer..

    Course they may have no choice. I think it would be to hard to get involved on a loving relationship with the person you are guiding.

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    Post  Violet on Tue Nov 03, 2009 3:09 pm

    Some believe that as a spirit, in the spirit worls you can see the bigger picture, but I don't believe that to be true of recently departed souls who may need a long time to adjust to being spirit, and like you I don't think a mother could see a child getting hurt however long she's been there or how well adjusted to the spiritual she was. I believe guides are older souls, who have been in spirit a long time and progressed while over there.


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    Post  kazandlee on Thu Nov 12, 2009 1:31 pm

    I love my spirit guide very much, he is a Native American Indian Chief, when i went to Monument Valley two years ago, i felt him close, just today a recieved my new canvas photo prints of pictures that i took in monument valley, i hung them uop today, i put one off our dreamcatchers at either side of the piture, when i went to bed earlier, just strared at them, the feeling was so immense, as if i was there all over agian, anyway, i was in bed, now im up, feeling ill, realy realy bad Man Flu, hope its not the Swine!

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    Post  Violet on Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:54 pm

    Hi Lee, great to hear about your guide and the pictures, they sound lovely, i'm sorry to hear you're ill and I hope it is man flu and not swine flu, get better soon.


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    Re: Loving your Spirit Guide?

    Post  kazandlee on Sat Nov 14, 2009 6:32 pm

    Violet wrote:Hi Lee, great to hear about your guide and the pictures, they sound lovely, i'm sorry to hear you're ill and I hope it is man flu and not swine flu, get better soon.

    Thanks Violet, went to docs Sat, doesnt think its Swine Flu but hes not sure as its early, , oh well, just woke with a dream that ive been having for ages, going to post it on here for an answer.

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    Post  PEACE on Tue Oct 05, 2010 9:22 pm

    Just latley ive been realy moved by my spirit guide ive been led to a postcard copy of an old photo of a zuni govner that was last year and this year we had a street perfomance by some native amricans and i didnt have the money to by the cd but when i got home my husband gave it to me and that was a surprise as hes one to hold onto his money and not as he says waste it,yesturday i was in a charity shop and found a piece of art work from america by you guesed it the zuni people using sand fom around the area hows that ,it really touched my heart chakra love and lightxxx

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    Post  Violet on Wed Oct 06, 2010 11:36 am

    PEACE wrote:Just latley ive been realy moved by my spirit guide ive been led to a postcard copy of an old photo of a zuni govner that was last year and this year we had a street perfomance by some native amricans and i didnt have the money to by the cd but when i got home my husband gave it to me and that was a surprise as hes one to hold onto his money and not as he says waste it,yesturday i was in a charity shop and found a piece of art work from america by you guesed it the zuni people using sand fom around the area hows that ,it really touched my heart chakra love and lightxxx

    Hi Peace, if they are the same group of Native Americans we get here from time to time they are amazing, I just sit and watch and listen to them, they have a number of cd's out, I got one too (out of my bill money ) but i'm glad I did


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    Post  Detlef on Wed Oct 06, 2010 12:28 pm

    Violet wrote:I imagine you would feel some kind of love for a spirit guide especially if you have a close bond with them and are communicating regularly with them, at very least you'd have respect for them and trust them.
    Do you think, or do you know of anyone who feels a romantic type of love for their guide, do you think it's even possible? Is it just people getting carried away, or could it be that a guide becomes the only reliable trustworthy and loving being in someone's life, especially if someone is lonely or in a bad relationship and depends on their guide more and more? I shouldn't think it would ever be reciprocated.

    I know there is no physical body to love, but you do hear of things like astral sex, (that's a whole other thread.)

    What are your thoughts on this?

    I have three guides, don't talk to them any longer, but they are there for me, hold energies for me. Do I love them? Of cause, like I love anything and everything else.
    Of cause I respect and trust them, they are my friends.
    Romance is not our thing when we are guides.
    There is a love that can be more intimate, then the love we have for everything else in existence.
    I made a connection with someone I know for eons, and the energy felt very sensual.
    I know now who this being is, and even the physical expression it has on this planet.
    There is no physical attraction to this person, nor should there be any.
    It is interesting, the time we spend her in the physical, is very very short.
    There might be no physical body,(and even this is not entirely correct) but lots of energy to share.
    If you could remember the experience, you might change your mind on the physical ways.

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    Post  sparkly on Wed Oct 06, 2010 1:13 pm



    hello all,

    i don't think it would a guide that would have sex with a person. it would seem a breech of contract for a guide to have sex with a charge.
    as a kid i felt a lot of company around me, but i never used the labels of guides, guardian angels etc, even though i was taught to pray to the guardian angel.
    now i try to remember to thank them, and to pass on my thanks to any i have had that are now not with me.
    recently my friend sent me one of those silly? emails about the various centres that angels operate from, and there wa this one which was not at all busy with a sssad angel...it was the thankyou area.
    whether it wassss crap or not, i decided right away to go light a candle in my kitchen. every time i went into the kitchen i said my thankyous.
    the next night, next to my head, between my temple and my ear wass a bright light and a connection that looked something like when et phones home, or the sparks generated by welding. it was very nice.
    i'm not sure if there was a connection or not, to my thankyou candle.

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    Post  Violet on Mon Nov 01, 2010 2:11 pm

    sparkly wrote:

    hello all,

    i don't think it would a guide that would have sex with a person. it would seem a breech of contract for a guide to have sex with a charge.
    as a kid i felt a lot of company around me, but i never used the labels of guides, guardian angels etc, even though i was taught to pray to the guardian angel.
    now i try to remember to thank them, and to pass on my thanks to any i have had that are now not with me.
    recently my friend sent me one of those silly? emails about the various centres that angels operate from, and there wa this one which was not at all busy with a sssad angel...it was the thankyou area.
    whether it wassss crap or not, i decided right away to go light a candle in my kitchen. every time i went into the kitchen i said my thankyous.
    the next night, next to my head, between my temple and my ear wass a bright light and a connection that looked something like when et phones home, or the sparks generated by welding. it was very nice.
    i'm not sure if there was a connection or not, to my thankyou candle.

    I missed this one too...

    Hi Sparkly, no I don't believe a guide would either, your thank you candle sounds lovely


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    Post  sparkly on Tue Nov 02, 2010 6:49 am




    hi vi,
    yeah aren't there rules about _/ client privelege and teacher/ student relations...so i'm sure that applies here...
    not to mention, transference and all as you get with helping professions.

    yes the candle helped re- mind me to thank the angels/ guides...and if the experience i had was related, very fulfilling too. :bfs: :shemade:

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    Post  Lynn on Tue Nov 02, 2010 11:15 am

    Violet wrote:I imagine you would feel some kind of love for a spirit guide especially if you have a close bond with them and are communicating regularly with them, at very least you'd have respect for them and trust them.
    I have two Guides with me. Do I have LOVe for them NO . Do I have trust for them yes. Do I have a close bond to them I would say no not really I do not talk with them in the sense of a communication or the need for such. To say contact them in meditations ext. I know that they are there for me. I know that if I do not LISTEN there will be a lesson coming forth me me. More we have an existance as ONE.

    Do you think, or do you know of anyone who feels a romantic type of love for their guide, do you think it's even possible?
    YES on YES. (Graphpic details ) not included in what I have heard. Possible YES if that is what one wishes, right or wrong not me place to judge.
    Is it just people getting carried away, or could it be that a guide becomes the only reliable trustworthy and loving being in someone's life, especially if someone is lonely or in a bad relationship and depends on their guide more and more? I shouldn't think it would ever be reciprocated.
    Like all things obbessions can and do happen. Should it be again not me place to judge on that one. Some do over depend on Guides YES forgetting what GUIDE means as in me understandings it does NOT mean to lead one's life for them....its to offer assistance in the form of Guidance and trust.

    I know there is no physical body to love, but you do hear of things like astral sex, (that's a whole other thread.)
    There DOES NOT have to be a physical body....that is SO not needed. ( not that I have had first hand GUIDE PLAY). I have though TRIED the Astral Realm of play....I felt that if I as to talk on it openly I should try it on.....walk the walk and talk the talk. I would assume it be the same with a Guide in experience and or feelings. NOT about try me Guides OMG a Black Witch and a Budda Master. ( both pure in nature of such things ).

    What are your thoughts on this?
    If the shoe fits wear it for the most part.....too there are limits to what one should ever surrender too. The lost in both the Living and Spirit deserve to find their OWN footings in life.

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    Post  Violet on Tue Nov 02, 2010 2:56 pm

    Lynn wrote:
    Violet wrote:I imagine you would feel some kind of love for a spirit guide especially if you have a close bond with them and are communicating regularly with them, at very least you'd have respect for them and trust them.
    I have two Guides with me. Do I have LOVe for them NO . Do I have trust for them yes. Do I have a close bond to them I would say no not really I do not talk with them in the sense of a communication or the need for such. To say contact them in meditations ext. I know that they are there for me. I know that if I do not LISTEN there will be a lesson coming forth me me. More we have an existance as ONE.
    Hi Lynn, I don't chat with mine much, years and years and years ago when I first started out I always imagined that if I got to know a guide I would talk them to death but I don't, as you say there is no need.

    Do you think, or do you know of anyone who feels a romantic type of love for their guide, do you think it's even possible?
    YES on YES. (Graphpic details ) not included in what I have heard. Possible YES if that is what one wishes, right or wrong not me place to judge.
    You're right, it is not for us to judge, but I can't imagine such things would happen with a guide

    Is it just people getting carried away, or could it be that a guide becomes the only reliable trustworthy and loving being in someone's life, especially if someone is lonely or in a bad relationship and depends on their guide more and more? I shouldn't think it would ever be reciprocated.
    Like all things obbessions can and do happen. Should it be again not me place to judge on that one. Some do over depend on Guides YES forgetting what GUIDE means as in me understandings it does NOT mean to lead one's life for them....its to offer assistance in the form of Guidance and trust.
    I totally agree

    I know there is no physical body to love, but you do hear of things like astral sex, (that's a whole other thread.)
    There DOES NOT have to be a physical body....that is SO not needed. ( not that I have had first hand GUIDE PLAY). I have though TRIED the Astral Realm of play....I felt that if I as to talk on it openly I should try it on.....walk the walk and talk the talk. I would assume it be the same with a Guide in experience and or feelings. NOT about try me Guides OMG a Black Witch and a Budda Master. ( both pure in nature of such things ).

    Lynn respect to you for the line I highlighted
    What are your thoughts on this?
    If the shoe fits wear it for the most part.....too there are limits to what one should ever surrender too. The lost in both the Living and Spirit deserve to find their OWN footings in life.

    Lynn


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    Post  Lynn on Tue Nov 02, 2010 5:59 pm

    Hello

    Too a great deal of respct goes out to me mate. When I brought up the topic of Astal relations, I told him a bit about what Astral Travel was as he really runs pretty turned off line to most of what I do.....

    I told him that a friend of mine almost took his life over and Astral Connection going wrong. When that BOND was broken off it was not fully cleared in its connection . ONLY part of it was taken from him. The CONNECTION to him stayed in the form of "If I cant have NO ONE WILL" . This showed me how v ery real and very dangrous the Astral Plane could be. That FULLY what could be done in and on the physical plane could be done on the Astral Plane.

    I told me mate that I knew someone I TOTALLY would put me life in his hands for that would share in the "PLAY" aspects of the Astral Plane....JUST the ONCE just so I could talk the talk.....so I could honestly say YES I have experieced all it can be. He was like well "I have you in the flesh in the real here and now" so go for it. I was STUNNED I told him it would be FULL on experience still said it was fine. That I should KNOW what I talk on what I was going to do a workshop on. What is FULLY possible on the Astral Plane.
    Me mate totally trusted in me , in me Guides to keep me safe, and in the one I choose to exepericne with. Me mate too for the first time say me speak in Chuch and heard how many said they could SEE the Guides and Spirit Protectors I have around me, how HUGE me Aura was. To hear on some of the work I do with Spirt and Guides. To hear of me Guides and Past Lives lived . He told me there truly is a GREAT power ( his word) to me that showed in the respect I have from others and in how well liked I am . He said even he could FEEL that.

    LOVe for me Guides YES LOVe for a Spirit that was once me that was too once me forbidden LOVe yes. In the same way it once was, only in Spirit.


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