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    justme
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    Letting go for good

    Post  justme on Thu Feb 04, 2016 9:39 pm

    I've met my tf when I was 13, I'm 26 now. I'm not ready to let go at all I'm hurting because we had a 8 year separation and ten days ago we reconnected briefly. She is female and so am I. She's also christian so she believes she will be wrong with God if she is with me. So we went our ways... It hurts.. The other half of my heart is gone for good..
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    Re: Letting go for good

    Post  Blueanchor on Thu Feb 04, 2016 10:03 pm

    I'm sorry for how you are feeling justme, it's tough to lose someone you love and certainly does feel like the heart is breaking. But your heart was, is and always be whole. Perhaps it is time to claim the love you give to others as your own and be your own other half.

    Wishing you healing :hugz:
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    Re: Letting go for good

    Post  AmarenLux on Fri Feb 05, 2016 1:39 am

    I know you may or may not understand this; When you are ready you will heal n let go, though it is sad that some christians still take such views.

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    Re: Letting go for good

    Post  mac on Fri Feb 05, 2016 1:43 am

    justme wrote:I've met my tf when I was 13, I'm 26 now. I'm not ready to let go at all I'm hurting because we had a 8 year separation and ten days ago we reconnected briefly. She is female and so am I. She's also christian so she believes she will be wrong with God if she is with me. So we went our ways... It hurts.. The other half of my heart is gone for good..
    She's your twin so there will be another time.  Yes of course it hurts but you're bound to get together again. This lifetime is only one of several or many.   :asmile:

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    Post  justme on Sat Feb 06, 2016 10:04 pm

    The thing is I don't want to be together with her. She has a bad soul. I honestly think these type of connections actually can end.
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    Post  AmarenLux on Sat Feb 06, 2016 11:22 pm

    yes i believe they can too :)

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    Post  mac on Sun Feb 07, 2016 1:02 am

    justme wrote:The thing is I don't want to be together with her. She has a bad soul. I honestly think these type of connections actually can end.
    If you don't want to be with her then that's how it will be - neither of you can be forced into something one or both of you don't want.


    And if there's no longer any attraction between you that's the end of things...  But it suggests it wasn't your soul mate or twin flame as those individuals are drawn to one another, or long to be with one another, in one kind of personal relationship or another. 


    Not necesarily a 'lovers' situation.  Other relationships can be entered into by 'twin-flames' or 'soul-mates'.

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